Gary "Coach" Coffey Date of Birth: Sat, 08/19/1950 Date of Death: Fri, 01/06/2012
A teacher and coach of 32 years, Gary Elton Coffey is survived by his wife of 40 years, Nel; their three sons Brady and wife Jessica, Todd and wife Sarah, and Ryan; daughter Courtney and husband Ty; two grandsons Owen and Wyatt; mother Dorothy; two brothers Jeff and wife Jenny and Brian and wife DeLaine; two sisters Sharon and husband Ross and Leisa and husband Rick; two aunts Violet and Barbara and husband John. Whether caring for his own family, the kids on the field, or the legions of “pool rats” and lifeguards, Coach could always be found with a smile. Many people walk in and out of our lives but only true friends and family—like those of you who have supported us so much in this difficult time with your generosity, prayers, and love—have left footprints on our hearts.

Recent Tributes

  • Nick Godfrey
    Friday, February 10, 2012 - 09:17

    THE STORY OF THE NAIL HEART
    The nail was used to hold him fast Unto him fast.
    Unto the cross for sins so vast.
    For all the world's great sins that day
    Were borne by him that we might say:
    " Christ is my Lord, my strength, my song,
    And unto him my life belongs;
    I don't deserve the love the love you show,
    But through your gift my life's aglow!"
    By God's grace those who believe
    And confess their sins will have reprieve.
    Never will death cause fear again
    Thanks to Jesus, who
    took our sin!
    The heart formed from the twisted nail
    Reminds me that Christ's loves prevails.
    I wear it proudly for all to see,
    Thankful for his love for me !
    ~ Author Unkown~

  • Nick Godfrey
    Thursday, February 9, 2012 - 19:23

    THE STORY OF THE NAIL HEART

    The nail was used to hold him fast Unto him fast.
    Unto the cross for sins so vast.
    For all the world's great sins that day
    Were borne by him that we might say:

    " Christ is my Lord, my strength, my song,
    And unto him my life belongs;
    I don't deserve the love the love you show,
    But through through your gift my life's aglow!"

    By God's grace those who believe
    And confess their sins will have reprieve.
    Never will death cause fear again
    Thanks to Jesus, who
    took our sin!

    The heart formed from the twisted nail
    Reminds me that Christ's loves prevails.
    I wear it proudly for all to see,
    Thankful for his love for me !

    ~ Author Unkown~

  • NicK Godfrey
    Thursday, February 9, 2012 - 09:37

    Dear Coffey Family ,

    I just heard about the passing of Coach Coffey today and I am very saddened about it. My condolences to the Coffey Family. Coach Coffey was great coach and leader on and off the field. He was a great role model to his family. He always a smile when you talk to him. Coach Coffey passion was coaching sports. He was a very great coach. It was honorned to get to know from 7th grade year until the always whwn I went the Jersey Village games. Coach Coffey was there. I will miss Coach Coffey. Coach Coffey is in a better place now where there is he not suffering or he is not in any in pain. He is the presence of our LORD JESUS CHRIST. You are in my prayer's Coffey family.

    You'r Prayer Parnter IN Our LORD JESUS CHRIST

    NICK GODFREY

  • Charlie Henshaw
    Friday, January 13, 2012 - 14:22

    Todd, Ryan, Courtney, Brady, and Nel,

    I know there is nothing to be said to magically help you get over this. You have my utmost condolences and just want to let you know we all share in this loss. Coach and your family were always a huge part of my life. He was my first football and track coach. He was my first employer. He was ever-present in my childhood through swim. He was a influence on my musical taste and musical knowledge. And he was a second father figure at times in my life. He meant a lot to me, even though I got to see him very little in recent years. He made a huge impact on my life and will never be forgotten.

    My heart goes out to each one of you and I will continue to pray for your peace of mind. I do not know what it is like to lose a father, but realize it must be catastrophic. I do know what it is like to deal with similar tragedy unexpectedly, and I can tell you with time, things do get better. I have no doubt he is watching over each one of you now, and you can find solace in the fact that you have a Guardian Angel, who will be there always.

    Todd and Ryan, it was good to see you, even though the circumstances blow! I do not do Facebook, so if you ever want to catch up, shoot me an email, cmunroe9@gmail.com

    Peace Be With Each of You,
    Charlie Henshaw

  • Jason & Tracey Mauss
    Tuesday, January 10, 2012 - 20:22

    Dear Coffey Family,

    We are very sorry for your lose. Gary has a very special place in our heart. We had some great memories at the pool that we will treasure. You all are in our hearts and prayers.

    Jason & Tracey Mauss

  • Wayne Tolson
    Tuesday, January 10, 2012 - 19:26

    Nel I am saddened about your loss. I remember Gary as a loving husband and father. If I can help you are your family please let me know. Again a good man has gone to be with our Lord.

    Wayne Tolson 281-356-5333

  • Wayne Tolson
    Tuesday, January 10, 2012 - 19:22

    Nel I am saddened by your loss. Gary was a good man who I remember as a loving husband and father. My prayers and heart are with you and your family. If I can be of any help please let me know.

    Wayne Tolson

    30019 Charlie ln

    Magnolia TX 77355 281-356-5333

  • Brenda Toloudis vessels
    Tuesday, January 10, 2012 - 15:28

    Dear Nel and Family,
    I was very sad to hear of the passing of Gary. I feel so blessed to be able to have seen and spoken to you two
    In May. He was a very dear man as or you, Nel. My prayers are with you and your family. Love you, Brenda

  • Karen & Michelle Hollaway and Cynthia Reel Baranoski
    Tuesday, January 10, 2012 - 00:35

    We are very saddened to hear about your loss. There should be more people in this world like Coach Coffey. We will always hold a special place in our hearts for him.

    Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.
    Psalm 30:5

  • Carolyn and Jerry Harkreader
    Monday, January 9, 2012 - 19:14

    Nell, Brady, Todd, Courtney and Ryan,
    You have lost a husband and father and we have lost a great friend. We were so saddened by the news that we received today. We have been comforted by the wonderful memories of the three couples who grew up together in Tall Timbers in Dickinson. Our lives have been separated by distance for the last few years, but our love for our dear friends have remained close to our hearts. We shared so many "firsts" together. Our thoughts and prayers are there with you in Texas. We love you and trust that God will shelter you in His arms.
    Forever Friends,
    Jerry and Carolyn

  • Charlotte Bravenec
    Monday, January 9, 2012 - 18:05

    Nel and family: our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Gary was a man of integrity, 'a family man', mentor and inspiration to many kids through the years. He will be missed and remembered fondly by many. Praying that your many wonderful memories will get all of you through this difficult time. Anyone who knew Gary Coffey was blessed to have had their path cross his.

  • Charlotte Bravenec
    Monday, January 9, 2012 - 17:53

    Nel and family: All of you are in our thoughts and prayers. Gary was truly a man of integrity, a 'family man', and an inspiration to many kids through the years. Gary will no doubt be remembered fondly. Praying that your memories of him will sustain all of you at this difficult time, and that your pain at losing him will be eased, knowing that there are many who mourn his loss.

  • Tury and Pat Fernandez
    Sunday, January 8, 2012 - 21:21

    Dear Nell and family,

    We are all so saddened by your sudden loss. Gary was such a great man of chacter and passion but mostly I remember him as a family man. There are so many memories I have of him and you all...I am praying that the great memories you all have will sustain you during this difficult time. Heaven has just acquired an amazing angel and he is watching over you all. Much love, prayers and gods blessings!

    Love, The Fernandez Family

  • Brooke Lane Pearson
    Sunday, January 8, 2012 - 21:01

    My deepest condolences to the Coffey family...My thoughts and prayers are with you!

  • Shawna Van Wey
    Sunday, January 8, 2012 - 20:48

    Dear Coffey Family,
    I am deeply sorry for your loss. Your father/ husband was a wonderful man! He always looked out for so many of us and definitely cared for us as if we were his own. He always made of us aware that we were important and definitely checked us when we were in the wrong! He was an awesome man who I remember always had a wonderful sense of humor and watched out for us all! The spalshers and coming up to the neighborhood pool was always a found memory of mine. I loved to just sit around and talk with Coach Coffey primarily because he was always so willing to listen. I do really hope that God will easy your pain.

    All my love,
    Shawna Van Wey

  • Pam and John Sowa and family
    Sunday, January 8, 2012 - 20:34

    Nel, Brady, Todd, Ryan and Courtney and family
    We are so sorry for your great loss. Gary was an awesome father
    and husband. He always showed is love for all of you openly.
    He was also a second dad to many many kids from Carriage Lane as
    well as Cook Jr. and JV. He mentored many and helped alot of young
    man and woman who today I am pretty sure could say if it wasn/t for Coach Coffey.. I ran into a young man today at Kroeger and he was
    telling me how much Gary meant to him and helped in sports and school
    at Cook. We have great memories of Carriage Lane Swim team with all
    the kids and Gary busy helping and working during the whole time.
    I wish I could remove your pain but I can't. I can only lift all of
    you up in prayer. I know our loving God is holding each of you right
    now and comforting you. Please know that anything you might need please
    do not hestitae to call. We know you have your JV family but there are
    many still left over here in Carriage Lane and surrounding that will do
    anything for you guys.
    Pam and John Sowa and family

  • Virginia Serna
    Sunday, January 8, 2012 - 20:28

    Dear Nell and Family,

    Our hearts go out to you in this time of sorrow. Know that you have friends that will keep you in their hearts and will send you strengthening prayers to keep you in the coming weeks.
    Tony really loved to get together with Gary and talk sports and stuff,maybe they are watching the games together right now.

    Blessed Be,

    Virginia and Familyrqdhw

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